It is extremely important to understand & get familiar with the concept of “Justice” when an Asian like me (who grew up in an old-fashioned way) tries to adapt to the Western Culture. In a society built on Monotheism (with Absolute God), the “Correct Answer” often exists. I am not talking about good or bad about this – I just need(ed) to “modify” myself when I immigrated here. I respect my religious friends, and I am learning it every single day (as I live in a Christian Community with a Jewish Spouse). When it comes to Sashiko, as Sashiko exist in Japanese culture, I want them to “adjust themselves” instead of “changing/filtering” the Sashiko Culture itself to fit their “mold/shape” comfortably. Unfortunately, it seems to happen a lot in many practices – A culture/practice is “changed” by someone with privilege for their profit/comfort. Culture changes, but that’s cannot be the excuse to be ignorant.
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[What is the Right (Size) Stitch for Sashiko?] – I used to see this discussion a LOT. I don’t know about now as I stopped interacting with “them”, but this question makes me sad as they do not even realize their value-system in another “culture”. When “Right” exists, “Wrong” always exists in dualism. Sashiko is “life” for me, so when one defines one Sashiko as “Right”, will my life be defined as “Wrong”? We (as Japanese) NEVER had war in Sashiko arguing which Sashiko is right in our history. Now, in(from) Western Trend, I worry the “war” may happen (or even happening). I am here to include – not exclude, yet my words are probably not comfortable for those who wish for Instant Gratification or an easy answer. I teach how to find “Your Own Answer” – as I believe “You are valuable as you are” – don’t let anyone define what is right and wrong for you. Please.
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長年刺し子と共に生きてきました。面白いなぁと思うのは、これだけ沢山の種類の刺し子があっても「争い」が表面化していないことです。少なくとも私は知らない。（ただ、好き嫌いはあるだろうし、水面下では陰口等は盛り沢山だろうとは思うのですが）。ここには私の好きな日本的な価値「受け入れる」と言うものがあります。一般論ですが、西洋には絶対的な答え（神）が存在しますが、日本的な神は「自分の中（のみ）」に存在します。西洋と日本を混ぜると、本来「絶対」が存在しない場所に（各々が持っている「絶対」に）、答えと間違いがでます。私はこの現象を刺し子では見たくないと目を逸らしてきました。でも、そろそろ向き合う時なのかもしれません。もっと日本に、日本の刺し子に誇りを持って欲しい。そう願いながら来年も思いを語り続けられたらと思っています。
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2022-12-29 02:04:33
I rest often with the ‘answer’ — ‘It depends…’
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❤️🔥❤️ art/culture are linked. Both are complex. The art must have intent, otherwise it is just devoid of humanity and is just a copy of a copy of a copy🔥
👏 thank from a Westerner who values and practices non dualism
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I am not understanding what you are saying…Western culture is a destructive influence on sashiko? In what ways exactly?
I just started to try sashiko so I’m glad I found your account. I have difficulty telling myself there’s no “right” ot “wrong” even though I often give that advice to others. Thank you for your words and I hope you continue to find more people who are willing to listen. 🙏
Wonderful post. 👏
I am a child of parents from two quite different cultures, neither of them English. But I grew up in an outer culture that was English-based. My siblings and I were expected to ‘assimilate’, although that word was never used. We were to see ourselves as ‘Canadian’. But for me that was never enough. I am still on that journey of discovery. Your words are very valuable to me. We all seem to be most comfortable when we are with others who serm to be like us. But comfort is not always the most useful thing in life. Thank you for your words and stories.
This is reassuring! Even tho your stitches look so even, mine are still very wonky and uneven. I will try to relax into the rhythm.