Today’s Story is a bit personal – I remember a very powerful statement one teach

Today’s Story is a bit personal – I remember a very powerful statement one teacher told me in my school: [If we have a moment (1%) of laughter with warm food, we can go through the 99% of miserable moments]. My Philosophy and principles are based on this phrase. Therefore, the first thing I did when I visited Otsuchi (for the Sashiko Recovery Project after Earthquake & Tsunami) was to cook a warm meal to the staff.
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I don’t have much to offer to my wife (she is the breadwinner in a household), but I make a rule to make her laugh at least once a day – not 100% success rate, but I try. The same rules apply when I offer Sashiko Workshop. I try my best to make it “funny”. Sometimes, I receive a review focusing on my joke rather than Sashiko… which is, well, very appreciated. Naturally, my personal “dream” is to stand on the stage as a “comedian” – which I am scared of, and not happening as it is “dream” yet. Regardless, I like people laughing a lot, and I believe it is how we can go through difficulties.
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On SNS, I try to be as “difficult” as possible so that I can achieve the goal of passing down the Sashiko as a part of Japanese culture – rather than just a technique or design. It is a part of Cultural Sustainability, and if you do not receive any reply from me, please search for the answer. It is usually there, very easy to find, as I usually answer when I receive a question for asking answers with the necessity of explanation. I am not here to offer “Instant Gratification/Satisfaction” – I want you to laugh, smile, and enjoy Sashiko together with us. I intend to keep this style although I understand it is much easier to adjust Sashiko to Western Culture (like others do). However, to have a good 1% moment of laughter & warm food for everyone in Sashiko, I will keep sharing what I can do.
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中学生の時の恩師が卒業式で残した言葉が、今でも強く残っています。「人はほんの少しの笑いと温かいご飯があれば、どんなに辛くても前を向いて歩ける」というものです。その後の25年の人生で、この言葉を噛み締めることは何度もあり、今でも温かいご飯を作ることは何よりも大切にしているし、家庭内でも、できれば他の皆様と触れ合う場所でも「笑い」を大切にしたいと思っています。様々な笑いがあり、好みもあると思いますが、個人的には「笑われる」のも「笑わせる」のもアリだと思っています。ナシだと思うのは「薄っぺらい満足感（表面的な笑）」です。刺し子に関しても、色々考えて、笑って生活の一部にして欲しいなと思うのです。腹抱えて笑いながら刺し子ができるなんて最高じゃないですか。そんな空間を作り、また維持できたらなと思っています。
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2023-02-06 02:02:07

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